Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Oh come on....

I just don't know... I'm having a feeling conflict, it's not a really big deal, it won't change the world, it won't send anyone to the hospital, but I could make someone feel awfully bad.

You see, the girl I posted about in an eleven parts story just broke up with her boyfriend... I haven't seen her again since the day we broke up and I don't know why I still have her on my facebloop, I dunno maybe I still care haven't thought about it. Anyway, yesterday I "accidentally" went to her wall and I started to read  so much denial and how much she missed him and such. I'm asking you for some advice, I wanted to post her last status with a "Just keep walking" because she was so attached and so "in love" with him it makes me feel pity for her, we broke up because she wanted to go back with him and a month later, everything is gone. It's really sad. I just wanted to post that just like an advice, it's something I tell people when they're down to let them know the world doesn't stop spinning, but knowing her and the way things ended I think she might take it as if I was mocking her.

I know my intentions aren't always the best ones, I accept that, but this time it is. So... To post or not to post that's the question. I hope you help me out here. Thanks in advance

24 comments:

  1. Quien eres tu, y que le hiciste a mi Tox? Come on!!!!! Deberia de valernos pito, y lo sabes...

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  2. Yep, I think you should do it. It will make her feel better...

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  3. I think you should, what have you got to lose, no fear!

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  4. I wouldn't bother. Sounds like just a bunch of drama.

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  5. hm...i think u should talk to her (in a way more private) and just ask her how she's doing, and that u care as a friend 1st.

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  6. I agree completely with joana on this one. Do it in a more private way.

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  7. tell her what you feel man! whats the worst that could happen?

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  8. I side with the Plumber on this one. Don't go in there.

    But if you *really* want to, then do it privatly. The less drama, the better.

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  9. if you truly want to tell it to make her feel better...don't do it, she doesnt need any of your advice or comments, specially if she already dated you, if you are not focusing on having her in your life, you should stay away from hers as well.

    also facebook comments or everything involving internet is lame, if you want to send her a message, use SMS, is perfect, not as private as a call, but not as private as a facebook wall.

    stay calm and use your brain, the important thing is that you dont have to end heartbroken!

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  10. Thanks for your advice people, I appreciate your points of view. I won't do anything stupid, I'm holding myself.

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  11. Ignore her. Ignore her. Ignore her.

    Even if she contacts you, ignore her or find a way to avoid her.

    Don't become her rebound boyfriend because at any given moment, she'd leave you for the other guy again.

    You can do better than that.

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  12. what DWei said, just ignore her
    oh well

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  13. Have to agree. Don't become the one who she can go back too because she messed up again and didnt think about you :)

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  14. I wouldn't know what to do if I was in your situation either, hope all goes well for you, in anything you decide upon doing.

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  15. i agree with frankcom, dont become that person she can just fallback upon when ever she feels like it

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  16. If you do talk to her a) don't do it on a FB message and b) don't do it to try to get back with her since that would be a bad idea, IMO.

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  17. Not telling your felling is worth than not saying anything.

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